Here's how that went. I revealed. He signed off Facebook. I think I struck out. I've got crickets and cicadas over here. I didn't even make it out like "I'm in an open relationship and I want to see your O face" (Which is totally the nickname I gave him early on, O, for O Face, 'cause I wanna see it.) I told him about my boyfriend, which is totally not something you tell someone you want to get up on, at least not right away.
It's been 40 minutes and he's completely vapor trailed. Gone. Dissipated into the Facebook ether from whence he came. Clearly, I need to work on my skills. I ain't got no game.
Oh well, I have a husband and a boyfriend and a Hitatchi Magic Wand. I live a very satisfactory life over here. One hot guy who can't handle the truth isn't enough to get me down. Now, if I could just get those crickets to shut up.
I misjudged the situation entirely, at least from what he says. Hours after I went to bed, O finally responded to my message. He stated that he was cool with the open stuff and he did not intentionally sign off Facebook. He also reiterated that he isn't able to date right now because of schedules. This may have been directed at me. It also may have been directed at a previous comment about my friend trying to date him. (Most likely, my friend. He knows she was interested. All he knows is that I'm available.) This is good news. I'm a good person to date for people with busy schedules and he revealed that he is unattached. He also said he's totally willing to hang out. Now, to practice those skills I don't have...