He will remain NMB, but now NMB will stand for Now-My-Boyfriend. :D
This makes me happy. I bucked up and had a conversation about the label just like I said that I would. We applied it. When I left his house last night he said, "Goodnight, Girlfriend." Which actually sounded weird. Labels always sound weird to me. When Hubby and I got married, I found it very strange to call him "husband" and thus, I said it over and over until it felt right.
This changes nothing other than it gives me some reassurance that what we have will be ongoing. I like that. I pointed out that it changes very little, really, if either of us were to drop of the face of the Earth it would be a shitty thing to do to the other at this point. Therefore, simply implying some small level of commitment doesn't really change things since I don't think either of us would be that shitty to each other.
All that said, I'm happy that I can now call him my boyfriend.
In other news: I have a breakfast date on Thursday morning with someone that I've been texting casually for weeks. He finally asked me out. We'll see where this goes.
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